INSECURITIES
This is for me, you and whoever else that reads.
I have insecurities.
Sometimes.
Sometimes those insecurities get so bad that it takes over my mind.
It makes me think of all the bad thoughts that i could ever think of.
But i get over it. Well, sometimes.
SELF INSECURITY
Sometimes you feel like you're not good enough or that you can't do something.
You think you lack some self-esteem. Well, you're not the only one. There are many people out there wih insecurities and low self-esteem. Don't fret. There are things you can do to straighten yourself.
WHAT YOU CAN DO
Learn to love yourself. STOP BLAMING yourself for whatever shit that happens. It's not always your fault. Appreciate yourself. If it's your day off from school or work- go pamper yourself. Go out with friends or just have go on an outing alone. Relax. Go for a mani or pedi. Get yourself something nice- shoes or a dress or maybe just your favourite snack that you have not ate for ages!
Think of when you were your happiest and why were you happy. Don't cry while you reminisce..smile! be HAPPY! :)
Be genuine to yourself. Don't lie to yourself. If you did something good, compliment yourself, treat yourself to something. However, if you do something bad, recall what happened and why you did it. If it's your fault, apologise. Don't repeat your mistake. In order not to repeat your mistake, you have to REALISE it and UNDERSTAND WHY you did it. Don't be too hard on yourself. People make mistakes.
"All men make mistakes, but only wise men learn from their mistakes"- Winston Churchill.
RELATIONSHIP INSECURITIES
JEALOUSY DESTROYS RELATIONSHIP.
I have this quite alot. Heh. But realise this, if he/she loves you, they'll be true to you. They'll love you no matter what and no matter what happens they'll try their very best to be there for you. They'd do anything for you- YES- ANYTHING..but don't demand from him, he hates that. He's NOT your SLAVE. He gives sincerely and genuinely. Don't think to much. Don't get too jealous. Yes he might be talking to a girl but who is she? A friend? That's alright. If you find things suspicious, ask. Be straight forward. Guys don't do hints. Just tell them. If they truly love you, they'll tell the truth. Trust him on that. Don't go spying on him- this show that you don't trust him enough. HE TRUSTS YOU.
Don't test his patience. I've tried myself- not replying to smses or making prank smses or calls. That was a BIG mistake. If you feel uneasy about something, just say so. BE POSITIVE! :) Things can work out. But if they really can't- well, things happen for a reason. If you're going through a stressful time, don't keep to yourselves. What's a boyfriend for? Don't complain, just share your problems. He'll be glad to listen.
AND, learn to take care of yourself. Your boyfriend=maid/nanny/babysitter. Be responsible.
"We need to know ourselves better so that we can realize what we really want in our life. I think that the first condition for a person to be in a successful relationship is to be happy with the person he or she is, in other words, to love themselves"- Tarkan.
THIS POST IS RANDOM. ALL THAT'S SAID ARE PARTIALLY FROM ME AND ALSO FROM SOME HELPFUL WEBSITES-
If i offend anyone or if anyone disagrees with anything, feel free to tag :)
I LOVE KR.
Life is beautiful.
Pleasant dreams people.
"Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans" John Lennon.
